Masturbation
Peter James

There are a lot of disease out there. You always read in the papers or see on television how people are dying from STDs everyday. It is a sad thing to see. It is hard to believe that something as pleasurable as sex can cause such bad diseases. Many men are choosing to stay celibate. I know, you tell this to your buddies so they get off your back because you haven't got laid in awhile. This is serious and people are actually doing it. There are a lot of reasons why a man might choose not to have sex. I know that people think men who don't have sex must be gay. That is so false, it isn't even true.
The idea of death is something that scares a lot of people. It is so scary, it can make a rock hard penis go limp like a French fry that has been under the lights too long. Death is real and so is STDs.

It is important when you bang that hot piece of ass that you could get something. This is the risk you take every time you have sex with a stranger. Hell, you could know a woman for months and get something. You can't tell by how someone looks, how they act, how much money they have. There is no way of knowing unless they get tested. That is the plain truth. I would suggest to you that you get checked often. If you don't have the money there are places that you can get tested for free. If you have sex with a lot of partners, you owe it to yourself and to them.

You may choose not to have sex to lower your risk of getting these diseases. This is a valid reason and you should consider it. You want to live a long life, no matter how hot she is, not matter how nice her breasts are, it isn't worth dying over.

Some men choose not to have sex because it adds confusion to a relationship. Men don't want to admit it, but this is true. A whole host of problems arise when you have sex with a woman. It starts with the nagging, the bitching and before long you are pussy whipped.

Some men choose not to have sex for religious reasons. In most religions they teach that you should wait to have sex until you are married. This is a good idea. If you do this you won't have to worry about getting a disease. If you have kids, then you know that you are going to have kids with a woman who loves you and will love the kids.

Some religions believe that if you have sex before you are married you will go to hell. I guess we won't know until we die if this is truth or not. I see nothing wrong with waiting until you are married to have sex. I think it makes perfect sense. This way you can focus on the other aspects of life.

Just because you aren't getting laid doesn't mean that you can't have fun. Masturbation can be almost as fun as the real thing. I'm sure by now you know how to wank your crank, but here are a few suggestions to make it better.

Buy some hand lotion. You won't believe how good it feels to stroke your penis with a little hand lotion. You will shoot your load before you know it. It is a great lube, smells good, and you can get a big bottle for cheap.

- Vaseline. This isn't my favorite. I think it is too greasy.

- Baby oil. I hate this stuff. It feels too gritty. My penis gives it two testicles down.

- Looking at porn. This is a great way to jack off. My favorite is looking at porn movies while I jack off. You know that you will have a constant hard on time and time again. Porn is cheap these days. You almost have to be blind not to be able to find any on the net.

- Sex toys. I have tested out many of these. They tend not to feel like the real thing. I prefer my hand most of the time. There are some good ones out there. Go to your local adult store and check them out. You will be surprised at all the toys that are out there now.

I would suggest you not to use any kind of lube you find in the kitchen. Stuff like butter or oils. This is because they sometimes add salt to them. Salt will make your dick burn like hell. Steer clear of anything like this.

There are many ways you can spice up your sex life when it is just you. There is no shame in masturbating. I don't feel guilty when I masturbate. If anything, I feel proud. I am proud that I am not going out and spreading a bunch of diseases to the world.

Enjoy masturbation. It can be a lot of fun. There is no reason why it shouldn't be. I wished the world would jack off a little more. I think the world would be less violent and aggressive if we did.